Divorce is never easy. It can be a difficult time for all parties involved. In a way, divorce signals the end of a way of life and the beginning of a new. Once your divorce has been finalized, this is the best time to regroup, pick up, and start a new chapter of your life. The first step in doing so is to take care of yourself and to move forward. This is a great time to evaluate yourself and your life. Redefine yourself as a person and take back control of your life. Although divorce may not have been your idea, it is a time for a new start, and really, you can let the sky be your limit. If you have children, it can be a troubling time for them. In order for you to best care for your children, you must first get yourself together, so you can better help them.