Let’s face it, divorce is hard on the children as much as it is the parents. Many things a parent will do affect how children cope with divorce. Some parents involved in a divorce tend to say thing regarding the other parent in front of their children. If you are saying something bad about the other parent, do not say it where your child can hear it. Also, do not share details about the divorce with your children. Another no no is arguing in front of your child. Above all, do not put your child in the position as playing adult. They are children and should not have to worry about adult matters. Let them be young free spirits and enjoy their youth without the added stress of what is happening in mom and dads world. They will only be young once, let them enjoy it.